This Is the Loneliest State in America

THE RESIDENTS OF THIS STATE ARE MORE PRONE TO SOLITUDE THAN TO BEING SOCIAL.

Whether it's missing family and friends you don't get to see too often or longing for someone to cuddle with in the cold winter months, there are plenty of reasons why people experience feelings of loneliness this time of year—and that's when things are "normal." With COVID-19 restrictions still in place, those feelings are likely to be amplified more than ever. That's why we at Best Life set out to find the loneliest state in America.

To get to the bottom of loneliness at the state level, we looked at three metrics: romantic loneliness, social relationships, and personality type. For the first number, we used a Move.org report measuring the number of single residents in each state, as well as and their most popular Google searches on Valentine's Day. Based on these two factors, each state was given a score on a scale of one (least lonely) to 10 (most lonely).

Secondly, we used data from the Gallup-Sharecare Well-Being Index to see what percentage of residents in each state reported having at least one close social relationship. Finally, we looked at a study conducted by the American Psychological Association, which examined data from 1.5 million Americans and rated each state on a 100-point scale in five different personality categories, including "extraversion." (This data did not include Alaska or Hawaii, which resulted in their exclusion from our final rankings.)

We then gave all three metrics a weighted value and ran them through our exclusive algorithm to determine how each state scored on our Loneliness Index. And the results included some interesting surprises. Read on to discover the loneliest state in America and find out where your home state falls in the ranks. And for the places in the U.S. where people are most active between the sheets, This Is the Promiscuous State in America.

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South Dakota
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.20

Residents with a strong social relationship: 78 percent

Extraversion score: 58.7

Loneliness Index Score: 0.00

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North Dakota
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.16

Residents with a strong social relationship: 78.1 percent

Extraversion score: 52.4

Loneliness Index Score: 2.69

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Utah
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Romantic loneliness score: 1.95

Residents with a strong social relationship: 77 percent

Extraversion score: 55.8

Loneliness Index Score: 6.07

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Wyoming
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.50

Residents with a strong social relationship: 79.1 percent

Extraversion score: 46

Loneliness Index Score: 6.86

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Minnesota
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.17

Residents with a strong social relationship: 77 percent

Extraversion score: 52.9

Loneliness Index Score: 12.31

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Missouri
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.31

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.9 percent

Extraversion score: 62.9

Loneliness Index Score: 15.36

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Nebraska
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.11

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.6 percent

Extraversion score: 60.0

Loneliness Index Score: 16.67

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Tennessee
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.29

Residents with a strong social relationship: 76.8 percent

Extraversion score: 51.3

Loneliness Index Score: 17.33

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Wisconsin
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.24

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.3 percent

Extraversion score: 69.8

Loneliness Index Score: 21.33

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Texas
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.28

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.7 percent

Extraversion score: 55.2

Loneliness Index Score: 22.80

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Indiana
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.29

Residents with a strong social relationship: 76.2 percent

Extraversion score: 48.9

Loneliness Index Score: 24.14

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Georgia
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.38

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.8 percent

Extraversion score: 63.2

Loneliness Index Score: 25.19

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Iowa
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.04

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.9 percent

Extraversion score: 62.8

Loneliness Index Score: 28.21

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Florida
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.82

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.5 percent

Extraversion score: 60.9

Loneliness Index Score: 29.15

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North Carolina
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.31

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.2 percent

Extraversion score: 51.0

Loneliness Index Score: 30.81

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Illinois
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.27

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.9 percent

Extraversion score: 62.5

Loneliness Index Score: 32.48

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Pennsylvania
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.74

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.4 percent

Extraversion score: 54.6

Loneliness Index Score: 33.75

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Vermont
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.25

Residents with a strong social relationship: 79.3 percent

Extraversion score: 26.5

Loneliness Index Score: 34.21

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Virginia
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.26

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.8 percent

Extraversion score: 48.5

Loneliness Index Score: 35.21

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Alabama
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.39

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.8 percent

Extraversion score: 55.5

Loneliness Index Score: 35.74

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Arizona
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.29

Residents with a strong social relationship: 76.7 percent

Extraversion score: 50.6

Loneliness Index Score: 36.21

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Maine
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.20

Residents with a strong social relationship: 77.1 percent

Extraversion score: 44.2

Loneliness Index Score: 36.74

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Kentucky
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.18

Residents with a strong social relationship: 76 percent

Extraversion score: 53.4

Loneliness Index Score: 37.61

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South Carolina
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.29

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.5 percent

Extraversion score: 60

Loneliness Index Score: 38.11

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Kansas
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.14

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.4 percent

Extraversion score: 45.5

Loneliness Index Score: 38.81

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Colorado
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.62

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.4 percent

Extraversion score: 45.3

Loneliness Index Score: 39.32

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Idaho
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.44

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.1 percent

Extraversion score: 40.7

Loneliness Index Score: 42.38

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Arkansas
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.65

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.6 percent

Extraversion score: 49.9

Loneliness Index Score: 42.49

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New Jersey
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.67

Residents with a strong social relationship: 73.6 percent

Extraversion score: 59.9

Loneliness Index Score: 42.64

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Connecticut
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.76

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74 percent

Extraversion score: 57.6

Loneliness Index Score: 42.90

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Montana
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.08

Residents with a strong social relationship: 77.2 percent

Extraversion score: 33.1

Loneliness Index Score: 42.94

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Ohio
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.36

Residents with a strong social relationship: 73.1 percent

Extraversion score: 54.6

Loneliness Index Score: 45.62

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West Virginia
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.31

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.6 percent

Extraversion score: 38.5

Loneliness Index Score: 45.94

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Michigan
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.24

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.7 percent

Extraversion score: 55.2

Loneliness Index Score: 47.64

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Massachusetts
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.79

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.8 percent

Extraversion score: 44.4

Loneliness Index Score: 47.86

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California
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.77

Residents with a strong social relationship: 73.9 percent

Extraversion score: 51.4

Loneliness Index Score: 48.99

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Louisiana
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.56

Residents with a strong social relationship: 73.3 percent

Extraversion score: 52.2

Loneliness Index Score: 49.48

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Oregon
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.30

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.6 percent

Extraversion score: 30.9

Loneliness Index Score: 52.03

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Nevada
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.83

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.6 percent

Extraversion score: 30.9

Loneliness Index Score: 53.35

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New Hampshire
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.11

Residents with a strong social relationship: 75.1 percent

Extraversion score: 40.2

Loneliness Index Score: 54.51

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New Mexico
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.53

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.3 percent

Extraversion score: 32.4

Loneliness Index Score: 57.23

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Washington
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.61

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.6 percent

Extraversion score: 30.6

Loneliness Index Score: 57.70

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Maryland
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.39

Residents with a strong social relationship: 73.6 percent

Extraversion score: 35.2

Loneliness Index Score: 58.11

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Oklahoma
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Romantic loneliness score: 3.19

Residents with a strong social relationship: 74.8 percent

Extraversion score: 39.7

Loneliness Index Score: 58.74

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Delaware
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.38

Residents with a strong social relationship: 72.2 percent

Extraversion score: 47.0

Loneliness Index Score: 59.93

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Mississippi
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.50

Residents with a strong social relationship: 71.4 percent

Extraversion score: 56.8

Loneliness Index Score: 59.93

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New York
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.88

Residents with a strong social relationship: 72.7 percent

Extraversion score: 47.0

Loneliness Index Score: 64.20

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Rhode Island
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Romantic loneliness score: 2.82

Residents with a strong social relationship: 68.5 percent

Extraversion score: 43.3

Loneliness Index Score: 100.00

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